5 Point of love ❤️
1) Both People Have to be Open to Love to Recieve it...
One of the saddest lessons lived in life is meeting 'the right person at the wrong time'. No matter how strong a connection or even knowing a future would work, if someone isn't open to fully being loved and giving it then it cannot happen.
If one has trauma and baggage to release then as much other can give love and support, it may not be equally returned and too much taken. Time may allow change but not always and this is why we have multiple soul mates. Those deep connections that have lasted previous life times might not fit in this one as one perspn has grown quicker than the other or karmically they no longer align.We should always try maintain those rare connections but if it cannot work, then have faith there will be another connection in time.
2) Love Cannot Be Forced...
This is simple... we cannot force someone to love us or treat us how we want to be treated. Nor can we force ourselves to live another. Loving someone unconditionally doesn't mean they will love you the same. Time we invest in someone isn't always equally reciprocated. Although in time love can grow, trying to force it will kill it.
This is a painful lesson but it is true. We cannot force love and trying only hurts us.If it is meant to be then it will be be... letting go is the best way to have hope for things to grow.
3) Reconciliation Takes Reflection...
So many people have fallen into the repetitive cycle of reconciling a broken relationship or repeatedly reconciling relationships that have no future throughout a life time. It is hard to let go but if there is still journeys left then reflection is the only way to see a clear path. Even when reconciling an argument or problem... reflection is compulsory to truly resolving the issues.
Taking time to understand why things happened and strategise a future that prevents them happening again Is essential and is what comes from reflection. Moving forward needs understanding of mistakes but not resentment. If someone has wronged you then you have to forgive to move forwards and have hope. Wanting understanding of actions and empathy for their impact is valid yet to reconcile they need to be forgiven not reparations demanded which equals negativity feeding negativity. There is no future without hope ... making new memories and enjoyment, adding positive energy not dwelling on negativity and letting go of the past is the only way to reconciliation.
4) Love is Empathy..
This applies to all love not just romantic. If we truly care for someone, then we should care how they feel and want to know their view and feelings. Love is having understanding the emotions of those you love as well as their desires and fears. Showing care to someone by learning about them and questioning everything so they know their feelings and thoughts are valid to you. We should always try understand their feelings as well as our own before we act. Someone who loves you should equally want to feel your feelings.
5) We Have to Love Ourselves Before we can be Truly Loved...
This is absolutely essential and key. If someone doesn't love themself then they cannot be completely loved by someone else.
Loving yourself means you know your 'worth' and how you want to be loved. It helps create your boundaries for someone to respect as well as realise what you deserve and even wish for someone else to want to give. Loving yourself also gives you more love and confidence to give someone else.
I have earned the above through many experiences of my own and others as well as the guidance of the cards and energies around us.
There are so many lessons to love but these 5 seemed essential to know.
